Sometimes there seem to be good reasons for jealousy ...
...many times there aren't. When someone is experiencing jealousy for no real reason then their imagination needs training.
Easily learn to control your imagination, rather than have it control you ...
For it is the imagination that causes these feelings of jealousy, when people visualise, for example, their partner with someone else. This can cause a whole host of problems associated with these jealous feelings, from anxiety and panic, to anger when their partner simply looks at another person.
Then 'being jealous' can occur when, say, someone else gets promoted at work and you feel you should have got the job. Or jealousy can rear it's head when your neighbour buys a new hi-fi that's better than yours.
These patterns of thinking, imagining, and subsequently feeling that we call jealousy are not only usually useless, but also debilitating. However, hypnotherapy and NLP can really help you to stop being jealous.
Jealousy Patterns
Jealousy occasionally causes the person to be withdrawn and moody, but more often than not results in anger or even fury. Afterwards the person feels remorse, and often frustration with themselves, irritation with their inability to control their thoughts and feelings, anxiety and even depression.
Does your partner live in fear of your outbursts of jealousy?
Often the person on the receiving end of jealousy is utterly surprised and bewildered by their partner's response. Also, many people on the receiving end learn to live in trepidation of their partner's outbursts. The 'jealous' person will often be repeating patterns of behaviour from previous relationships although sometimes a person can get well into middle-age before the emotion rears its head for the first time.
Jealousy can be disastrous for a relationship
By using the models of neuro-linguistics and hypnotherapy we work to literally help to retrain your thinking so that you can control and eliminate these unwanted 'jealousy' patterns.
How long is it going to take to treat my jealousy?
By using this combination of hypnotherapy and NLP, the average number of one-hour sessions for the treatment of jealousy is 2 - 3.
testimonial
A client came to me to deal with jealousy.
He became very violent towards other men at the slightest provocation. His present girlfriend had now given him the same warning as his previous partners, stop doing this or it is all over. He had tried relationship counseling, but nothing had changed.
He came to see me for a single session the day before he was due to go off for a week's holiday with his girlfriend. He knew he would not be able to behave differently, and was very worried.
Two weeks later I received an email from him;
"Hi
Happy New Year.
Just back from hols. No outbursts at all! Absolutely amazing!
Thank you so much for saving my relationship with my girlfriend..."
