Hypnotherapy And NLP To Help Resolve Commitment Fears
Hypnotherapy and NLP offer you a potent combination of proven approaches to help you start to feel comfortable with yourself and all aspects of your relationships with others, including commitment.
How Will You Help Me End My Fear Of Commitment?
Well, this kind of relationship anxiety results typically from learned experiences, often from childhood, such as separation divorce, or trauma.
The good news is that we don't have to spend much time at all talking about the past, your childhood, your parents, and so on, because however this fear began, the cause is irrelevant to the cure. The experiences we have in life result in us developing conditioned responses to others and to our environment. In other words, ways of thinking and feelings such as being afraid of commitment become habits.
Treatments To Help You In Your Life Right Now, And Also Into The Future
These habits can be repatterned, often surprisingly quickly. Fears of loss, rejection or abandonment are commonly quoted as symptoms for this fear (phobia). Sometimes the person will fear that they are in danger of being swamped or dominated in a relationship, and that their freedom is at risk. The way that we use hypnotherapy and NLP to resolve these kinds of issues is very direct. We look and listen to how these fears manifest in consciousness and then begin to train you to get control of your thoughts, of your imagination.
More Training Than Therapy
Whilst therapy often seeks to unravel the past and get you to come to terms with the events in your life, many people find themselves going round in circles with their therapist or counsellor, having the same conversations week in, week out, getting nowhere.
The past is important, it has resulted in you being here now, being the person you are. If past events are haunting you, we will certainly work with you to rapidly put things into perspective. More important than the past is the present, how you are thinking in the here and now, moment by moment, and also the future, how you are imagining things will be for you. This is where we work, using a whole host of hypnotherapeutic and Neuro-Linguistic techniques to begin to help you to feel better. Much better.
Symptoms Of Fear, Or Phobia Of Commitment
These are just some examples of the things people have said to us over the years. You are an individual, so central to our approach is the way that we with you to discover what you are doing in your own mind. Then we use techniques that are the best fit for you.
- Fear of rejection
- Being afraid of abandonment
- Being scared of intimacy
- Trying too hard to find the 'Perfect Partner'
- Being too critical of your partner
- Being too aloof
- Being deliberately hurtful to your partner
- Being too critical of yourself
- Being scared of being noticed
- Fear of being engulfed in a relationship
- Being afraid to have sex
- Repeatedly falling for a person who isn't interested
- Repeatedly ending and restarting a relationship
- The avoidance of committing to almost anything
These are just some examples of the things people have said to us over the years. You are an individual and central to our approach is working with you to discover what you are doing in your own mind, then using techniques that are the best fit for you.
So just call or email us. The number of sessions will vary from person, though because what we do is very direct, a broad average is 3 – 4 hours work.
