You Can Stop Lying


Hypnotherapy and NLP to Help You Stop Lying

Hypnotherapy can help you

  • Compulsive lying can be disastrous.
  • It can wreck relationships and careers.
  • How much better will your life be
  • When you can just stop lying
  • There is a cure for compulsive lying.
  • The cure is hypnotherapy and NLP.

It Doesn’t Matter Why You Have Been Lying

Compulsive lying is usually fear driven, the person being simply scared to tell the truth. Whether this fear is seemingly to ‘stop someone else feeling bad’, or not, the compulsive liar essentially lies to stop him/herself from feeling bad, or occasionally to make themselves feel good (the boast that is a lie).

Lying Can Seemingly Destroy A Person’s Life

Most people have made a ‘white lie’ now and again. It is when lying becomes habituated that the real problems start. We have successfully helped people whose entire lives had, in their words, fallen apart, people who had lost friends, jobs, marriages, all because they had got into the habit of lying.

The cycle of fear-lying-regret-fear etc can be powerful.

However, by using a combination of neuro-linguistic’s and hypnotherapy we aim to get you outside these loops as fast as possible and one of the side effects of successful treatment is that the person rapidly gains increased self respect when the lying habit truly is a thing of the past.

What exactly will do you to help me stop my problems with lying ?

Well, we combine techniques from Neuro-Linguistic Programming and hypnotherapy to directly retrain your mind so that you get out of the habit of lying.  Neuro-Linguistic Programming sounds very complicated but actually the techniques are quite simple. We show you how to become the director of both your thoughts and your imagination, because it is the way that you think that produces the feelings that you have. And the human mind does like to make things automatic. Anything you do enough times gets easier and easier to do, whether it’s changing gear, typing your name, changing a nappy, doing a button up, and……. lying. It becomes a habit. We help you to break that habit.

Is it like counseling?

Certainly not. You can make wonderful and useful changes in your life with help from certain counselors, for certain issues. Our work is almost the opposite, it isn’t a chat about your problems and us listening to you talking about them for hour after hour. We do listen to you, but we are far more interested in the way that you are thinking than what you are thinking about. You could more accurately consider us to be trainers, rather than therapists, and you can be trained to tell the truth, be more relaxed and confident, and make the problems and heartaches associated with compulsive lying truly a thing of the past.

How long will it take you to get me to stop lying?

Usually it takes 2 – 3 hour long sessions to resolve this compulsion, though if you have other issues like chronic anxiety or depression then it may take longer. Occasionally we can sort this problem out very rapidly indeed.

Please feel free to make comments and or ask questions.

20 Responses

  1. 4ever_me says:

    I really need help. I lie to everyone telling them I am adopted… but I don’t know why.. I have a nice mom that’s married to this guy. (not my dad)and 3 younger sisters. their age is far away from me. the closes one to me is 8 years away.. then I lied to my best friend (that’s a guy) telling him lots of bad things about me so he would fell bad for me and would like me… I am going to ruin my life!! what do I do to stop lying?! please help me!!!!

    • steve says:


      The best advice I can give you is for you to go to the foot of the page, find the person closest to you geographically, and email or phone them.

  2. Adam king says:

    I really want help to stop lying, I’m close to losing the love
    Of my life because I lie. I’m so scared she will leave if I
    Tell her truths but then she finds out anyway and it’s worse.
    I want to stop. Please help.

    • steve says:

      Hi Adam. There’s not much we can do to advise on this matter online. Your email address suggests you are based in Australia. We have three excellent people in Australia, in Sydney, Melbourne and Perth. Their contact information is at the bottom of this page and they will be pleased to see if they can help you.

  3. Daniel says:

    Hi my name is Daniel I am going to lose my life that is my son and wife I really need help so I don’t lose them help

    • steve says:

      Hi Daniel

      Sorry to hear that, I would advise that you get in touch with one of my colleagues listed below to see what immediate help can be given.

      Steve Tromans: London

  4. steven young says:

    Hi I would like therapy because I am a compulsive liar I cant stop and I’m ruining my life

  5. Ross valentine says:

    Hi my name is ross and i really need help am going to lose the most important person in my life ny amazing girlfriend lorraine ! I really dont want to lose her but i need help with these stupid lies i tell please help me im on my last legs !

    • steve says:

      Hi Ross
      Whether you do or dont lose her it is really important that you feel comfortable and relaxed enough to automatically be truthful with your partner. Where are you located? Feel free to contact one of use directly. Scroll down for contact info.

  6. Victoria says:

    I have lied my whole life, I mainly do it to please others as I thrive off praise and making others happy. I can’t stop and I want to live a normal life as it’s making me emotional fraught with the guilt. Please help, I am in Bristol.

    • steve says:

      Hi Victoria

      I am probably your best bet in terms of location so please feel free to give me a call on 07900 240192. Steve Tromas

  7. danny says:

    I can’t stop lying I need help I lie about stupid stuff I can’t stop only way I can see I can stop is by killing my self now im so lonely I cry every time I think about it I want help before I do something silly. Please im based in London

  8. Estelle says:

    Ever since I was small I have never thought I would lie always thought I would tell the truth. But, unfortunately I have always lied to the people that I love and have loved. I always thought I didn’t know why but I do it can be about small things or as you know very large things. The first time I lied was when my dad asked me if did something I said no even knowing that I did. I thought it was that easy I thought I could get away with it again, in which I did. I watched my dad do it to my mom as with the women he had been with and seen even thou I knew he had been doing the things and he always said he hadn’t done it, my mom believed him. I saw my mom hide bills and money issues away from him and knowing that she had lied to him. I have been around it all my life right up until I left home to go to flat. I always thought I would not be like them and change but I saw two people love each other lying and thought that was right, in a strange way.
    I have always lied to the person/people that have either loved me or been close to me and I don’t know why I have done that. I know I have always wanted to be loved, liked, people someone can talk to. I have thought I could get away with it all but I never have.

    Through out my life/relationships I have made so many mistakes in which the relationship with anyone has made me lose love, trust and respect. I have hurt people made them upset and angered a lot of people on the way and always said that I would change or not happen again. Every time I have gone back on my word and I am truly sorry to everyone that I have done it to especially you and my family. I have always wanted my family to be proud of me and doing certain things and lying to people I thought that was right because I have always been around it and got away with it.

    I need help seriously with it as I have ruined my relationship 3/4 times with a man I love now and do not want to loose

  9. Seth says:

    Hey there, My name is Seth and today something bad really happened. Like any other people here, i am a compulsive liar. I lied through out my life and i want it to stop. I am destroying my life, my family’s life and others. I don’t know what am i supposed to do. I feel lost and i need help. Im based in Dublin, Ireland. I tried to search for some help here but i couldn’t find anything. Please do help me.

  10. John says:

    hi there my name is John, I have cheated And lying and i want to stop but i can’t unfortunately I have lied to my wife I been going out with girls for more then one year and i feel is a addiction I have lied to the other girls as well I really want to stop all this nonsense before I lose my wife and kids.

    • steve says:

      Hi John

      Well I believe anyone can be helped, do please get in touch with one of us. If I or one of my colleagues are not geographicaly close then Google local someone with experience in dealing with this issue. Best Wishes Steve Tromans

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