Thursday, 26 March 2009

Stop Nail Biting Transcript


To View this directly on YouTube go here - Stop Nail Biting


Ok, I’m going to spend a couple of minutes talking about nail biting and how we can get people to stop nail biting.


It may not seem to those of you who don’t bite their nails a lot, that nail biting is a big issue. However, if you have seen people as I have, and anyone who has been in this business long enough has, turn up with fingers actually bleeding with hardly any trace of any nails, and in tears because they have been like this for years and they can’t stop themselves, seemingly, then you’d know that it can be a serious condition.


Yes, it can be nice to have nice nails, but it’s really nice not to have to chew the ends of your fingers. Now this isn’t therapy, this is training, this is working with your mind so that the patterns which you’ve learned unwittingly to fall into, or to do automatically, are redirected or re-patterned so the combinations we use, combinations built from the fields of Neuro-linguistics, are very direct. It doesn’t matter where or when you started biting your nails, it’s totally irrelevant. What matters is you did learn to do it and there you are caught in an endless loop, sometimes you know you are doing it sometimes you don’t know you’re doing it. It seems to happen all by itself.


Sometimes nail biting can provide what seems to be a perverse pleasure for the nail biter, whatever. Whichever version you are doing you can stop doing it and we can help you.


Typically, because this is a direct behaviour, it’s a very straight forward behaviour, albeit it can seem extremely ingrained, it takes one session. Most of the clients I see to get them stop biting their nails. however extreme, one session does it. Its direct, it’s to the point and I’m confident we can help you with this.


So do call us; either myself, or any of my colleagues throughout the UK or the world. We will be pleased to help you stop biting your nails for good.

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Stop Taking Cocaine Transcript



To watch this on YouTube go here - Stop Using Cocaine


I’m going to spend a few minutes talking about how to stop taking Cocaine, how to stop using Cocaine.


I have seen people who turn up with their lives wrecked by taking Cocaine. That’s the way they have described it. They’ve lost their wife, their children, their job. They are up to taking a mound of cocaine every day and it doesn’t do anything for them except it makes them feel horrible; but not quite as horrible as they did before they took it.


Taking any drug, cocaine is no exception to this, is just a habit but it’s a horrible habit, a big habit. Taking cocaine socially for some people seems to be ok; it just keeps them awake it enables them to party longer. However it can very destructive, physically, mentally and emotionally. What I do with this is I use NLP which is training the mind and hypnosis combined to aim the person at the kind of person they want to be.


To begin with, people who come in are hooked, not only on the drug but the idea of the drug. They think about it and it gives them a good feeling, a positive feeling, ‘ahh cocaine, yes, let’s have some’. My job is to disconnect that in their mind, make that a thought of the past, make it distant, but my most important job is to aim them at how they are going to be, in other words if typically the person took several lines of cocaine every Saturday night out partying then I will get them thinking about how they are going to be instead of the problem, instead of the drug. I will get them thinking about it vividly. I will help them to create, in their imagination, a compelling vision of what life is going to be like without the drugs.


What are they going to be doing instead? How much fun are they going to be having? That kind of thing. Building things for them inside their mind because, yes, you can build aversions for things and disconnect things, but the most important aspect of my work is not where the person is coming from, its where they can be when they start aiming themselves at the solution. And the solution to ‘not taking cocaine’ isn’t ‘not taking cocaine’, it’s what their life is going to be like when they are not doing it any more, when they are doing something new. They could even be in the same place at the same party, socialising with the same people and happy and free and relaxed and alive and alert and having fun. That’s what my work is about, aiming at the solution, and the combinations, particularly of NLP which enables people to take control over their thinking in advance (that basically programs them to think how they want to rather than how they don’t) and hypnosis which simply helps them to re-pattern things at an unconscious level, is a very powerful combination. It’s a very powerful combination, so do contact us because we can almost certainly help you with this.

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