Stop Compulsive Lying: Hypnotherapy For Lying
Stop Lying: Hypnotherapy And NLP Can Really Help You
One of the most damaging of all personal habits is that of compulsive lying, and through the years I have seen a large number of people who have, to use their own words ‘ruined their lives’ through persistent and often outrageous lying.
Everyone Lies
Well, OK, probably not everyone. Many people, however, will have told a so-called ‘white lie’ once in a while. I myself have occasionally been guilty of telling someone on the phone that my wife is ‘in the bath’, or out shopping, to avoid her having to speak to someone that, at the moment, she didn’t want to speak to. I am not perfect. Who is?
Two Types Of Compulsive Lying
The first ‘type’ of compulsive lying is that kind where someone exaggerates their ‘achievements’. So someone might, for example, make up stories of all of the glamorous places they have visited, people they have met, illnesses they have had, cars they have owned etc etc etc. Usually, of course, this is done from a desire to be accepted, or to be liked or admired and usually, of course, the person gets found out eventually and end up being much less liked and much less admired.
Compulsive Lying To Prevent Bad Feelings
In a ‘clinical’ setting, the most common sort of compulsive lying we get to deal with is that of the person who makes up a lie, often ‘on the spot’, to stop the other person thinking badly of them. Then they have to tell bigger and bigger lies to cover up the first lie and it all spirals out of control.
Compulsive Lying Is A Habit
A bad habit it can be, I’ll grant you. It is still a habit though, and habits can be changed. Hypnotherapy and NLP are brimming with techniques to help people to change habits, to get them out of the automated old responses. In this case, the mind can be trained to ‘automatically’ feel comfortable telling the truth.
Hypnotherapy Can Help People To Stop Lying
If you are one of those people who has suffered from the habit of compulsive lying, because it does usually involve suffering, or if you are the partner of someone who has lied to you time after time, then you need to realise that it is possible for you to change, and the treatments is often very quick and very effective. For further information on how we treat this issue go here Stop Compulsive Lying
Self Hypnosis To Help You To Stop Compulsive Lying
For whatever reason, some of you may not be able to visit a hypnotherapist or NLP trainer for help with this problem. If this is you then you may well find assistance by listening to a good self hypnosis recording. Debbie Williams has just released a new suite of hypnosis and NLP recordings to help and they are available here Stop Lying Self Hypnosis and here Help Stop Lying. They come with a full sixty day guarantee. They are very good, but if you do buy them please make sure you listen repeatedly for best effect..
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2 Comments:
For some reason the universe seems to have given me more than my fair share of compulsive liars as clients, so much so that I started to wonder what I had done in order to become the chosen one. I did think of asking my clients, but would they have told me the truth?
It provided quite a challenge. The main challenge for any therapist who is working with a compulsive liar is “How do you know that the client is not lying to you during therapy?”
At first, I stumbled around quite a bit with that conundrum. I sought help and advice from colleagues and mentors, and spent hours searching for a solution on the web.
As is so often the case, the solution came when I was not looking for it. In fact, it came as I was talking to a compulsive liar.
I realised that all I had to do in order to help this client was to help him, rhetorically, find a place where, for the length of the session, he could not find a reason to lie. If he could not find a reason then he did not feel the need to lie. And if he did not feel the need to lie…
Like all the therapists you can contact via Just Be Well, I had found a way to deal with this situation and to provide the help these clients so desire.
Lying can also be cured by using NLP!!! Each time i try for NLP related websites, I am seeing some new applications of it.
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